That fateful day in 2010 when I decided that I wanted to look at how homosexual relationships differ from heterosexual relationships for my final year research preject was the day I was introduced to J-FLAG and the Jamaica AIDS Support for Life (which shared premises at the time). Surely, I couldn't imagine that 3 years later I would be working for JASL and working closely with J-FLAG. That fateful day in 2010, changed my life.